Open Letter

Author: teejtc  /  Category: Religious

To: Whomever believes the RCA needs to “do something” about homosexuality

Let me spill the beans on a couple of secrets:
* Homosexuality isn’t going to kill you.
* It’s not going “get” your children.
* It’s not an issue upon which the gospel lives or dies.
* The whole church is not falling apart because of gays and lesbians.

Last night, again, I sat in a classis meeting (our regional adjudicatory) and listened to (some) people who believed the current controversy in the RCA over homosexuality was destroying the church and the RCA would fall apart unless we “do something.”

I’ve found that most people believe “doing something” is the equivalent of making some kind of formal statement regarding the evils non-heterosexuality intimacy – as if any of the four above statements had merit.

The secret is this. They do not.

There are some who would try to argue the opposite. There are even those who believe homosexuality is worth status confessionis, but in the end, it is not. Which means the “something” we ought to be doing, is unity.

Bizarre concept isn’t it?! To believe that we, Christ’s church, should live in unity with one another despite our differences…to believe that God is capable of protecting his people from those who actually can kill us, get our children (etc.)

Radical.

Where are the Radical Moderates? Where are those who actually believe God is God? Where are those who recognize that extremism is the scourge of the church, not it’s protector?

Let me confess, I am one of them.

I have no desire to be lumped in the group some call “liberals” nor the one some call “conservatives.” Indeed, both terms are generally useless.

Let us instead be radically moderate.

Moderate:
1 within reasonable limits; avoiding excesses or extremes; temperate or restrained
2 mild; calm; gentle; not violent

Interesting how those definitions look so similar to the way Jesus usually behaved, isn’t it?!

I, at least, think his is an example worth following.

Grace and Peace,
`tim

17 Responses to “Open Letter”

  1. Sara Says:

    Just some thoughts to play devil’s advocate:

    What moral issues are worth “doing” something about? How do we decide as a denomination what is worth taking a stand for - majority vote?

    If unity is the end goal, what will decide when it is achieved? Once (if) we achieve denominational unity, then is it permissible to talk about moral issues/things explicitly condemned by the Bible?
    -Sara

  2. teejtc Says:

    Fair questions. The answers, of course, are not easy and depend on a number of things. First, however, I am not suggesting that it’s not “permissible” to talk about moral issues. Quite the contrary - we ought ot be talking about them. We ought to be talking about them primarily within the context of pastoral relationships, however.

    Secondly, I didn’t suggest that unity was the “end goal;” I suggested that unity was an appropriate goal in this situation.

    Finally, regarding the key questions here…. Moral issues are worth doing something about - that something has to be appropriate. Appropriate must take into consideration…
    *the full corpus of scripture and the importance scripture places on it,
    *the variety of exegetical approaches to the issue,
    *how the individual is effected,
    *how the church is effected,
    *if anyone is harmed in the situation,
    *…and probably others.

    The homosexuality debate has been prone to extremes and virulent. The only cause of that I can discern is that people have visceral responses to it and theologize to affirm their beliefs.

    Speaking specifically, at classis last night it was suggested that gays, lesbians and other non-heterosexuals are “dangerous” to our children and the church. That is inflamitory language with no basis and certainly doesn’t reflect the behavior we see Jesus exhibiting in the NT.

    Thoughts?

    Grace and Peace,
    `tim

  3. Steve Hemmeke Says:

    The reason people have visceral responses to this is because people are calling evil good, and getting away with it in the church. OT prophetic visceral responses are perfectly legitimate when people not only sin and don’t repent, but glory in the sin and demand the rest of society endorse their sin.

    When I read the NT, I see far more emphasis on purity than unity. 1 Cor 5; Galatians; 1 John. I agree that unity is vital (John 17, I think), but it is based on beliefs, not whoever happens to be in the room with us. At classis last night, what gave us all unity was the formulary being read several times. That’s what we all believe and why we are all there and members.

    And this is major.
    1. Scripture presumes homosexual practice is sin.
    2. Our unity is based on believing what Scripture says.
    Ergo,
    3. Unity can only exist when we all agree that homosexual practice is sin.

    I’ll agree to disagree on a lot: size of the choir, length of a sermon, order of service, architecture of a building, etc. I won’t agree to disagree where Scripture is plain.

    I also agree with the grace/truth balance. Most of the above has been truth. We also need to deal graciously with the issue in pastoral situations, where the tone would be very different from the above…

  4. teejtc Says:

    The same old arguments don’t become more effective just because their repeated….

    Jesus does certainly talk about purity, but his approach to it was always passive - he never hunted out people to condemn. He was in relationship with them and, when the time was appropriate, confronted them in an appropriate way….pastorally.

    As for legitimizing visceral responses. Pooh. Let’s not pretend that our personal reactions legitimize anything. I, for example, have immensely strong personal reactions to mushrooms. So what. On a less mundane level, I have personal reactions to a whole slew of things - some appropriate, some I’ve learned over the years, not. Besides, Steve, you’ve argued on a number of occasions that experience is not a valid theological source (for those who argue for the inclusion of gays and lesbians) why the waffeling now?

    I notice, as well, that you didn’t touch on the key concept of my original post - that, as a church, we need to take into consideration the harm done to both the church and the individual. This, simply isn’t a major issue; except that we’ve made it one.

    It’s also worth noting, that I’m not convinced that the grace/truth paradigm is the only setting within which we should be dealing with it. Indeed, it’s really just a way of saying “we’re right, but we’re willing to occasionally not shove it down someone’s throat when it suits us.”

    Until next time :cool:

    Grace and Peace,
    `tim

  5. teejtc Says:

    Slight correction — The sacking of the temple wasn’t passive, I’d better stand corrected before anyone points it out.

    Perhaps it is worth noting, however, that that single reactionary moment had to do with people, essentially, misusing the church and keeping it from worship and prayer….

    Grace and Peace,
    `tim

  6. Stacey Says:

    Thanks for the post, Tim. Your thoughts on all of this continue to challenge and clarify my own thinking.

    Speaking of radical moderates, I was reading an interview of N.T. Wright today at http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2004/123/23.0.html . In one question he was asked if Jesus would be part of this movement or that, and I found his response really interesting:

    “I was once leading a party of tourists in Palestine…where the Essenes were and we went down to Masada where the lost and the revolutionaries have been and we had been up in Jerusalem the previous day and going around the Temple which the Sadducees were running. I was commenting, isn’t it interesting that Jesus doesn’t do this one, doesn’t do that one, doesn’t do the other one. There are all these different options and instead Jesus ends up in Gethsemane which is a way of saying yes and no to everything. He doesn’t run away, but nor does he lead an armed resistance. He doesn’t try to become a king in the ordinary sense. He does this very strange thing which comes right through the middle and which, therefore, remains the most deeply subversive thing you can imagine.”

    Jesus found - or rather, created - a sort of middle way of saying both yes and no to a variety of things going on in his culture. I’m wondering how this might apply in negotiating our own cultural landscape…

    No profound insights here, just wanted to share something I thought you might enjoy :)

  7. teejtc Says:

    Stacey,

    Thanks for the link — very interesting.

    I think the point that I keep coming back to is that, in SO many ways, Jesus would have probably been both more “liberal” and more “conservative” than most contemporary Christians would ever dream of accepting.

    This whole topic is no exception to that rule.

    My point is that I expect Jesus would not have dealth with these kinds of things publically. Even if he would have condemned it, I expect it would have been done in a loving and forgiving way according to the timing of what he considered appropriate for the particular individual.

    Here is where we have been so absolutely unChrist-like. We expect to change other people according to our timelines.

    If God wants to change people (anyone), I believe God is fully capable of doing it.

    Perhaps, if nothing else, we can learn from this whole controversy that God is God and we are not; that God’s timing is divine and ours is not, and that any god that requires our protection isn’t a god worth our worship.

    Grace and Peace,
    `tim

  8. Steve Hemmeke Says:

    I never claimed my feelings legitimized any position. My point is that when evil is called good, the resulting frustration is natural and good, because injustice is being done. I’m not putting the visceral reaction before the theological judgment. It’s a REaction we’re talking about - to a wrong theology.

    See here for more on comment 7
    http://hemmeke.blogspot.com/2005/09/jesus-likely-response-to-homosexuality.html

    Sometimes I think you guys think that if I learned someone was a homosexual, I would started yelling profanities at them about how they’re going to hell. You’re just not taking the time to try to understand what I’m saying.

    I know you’re saying we need to be NICE to people who don’t fit our category of “moral.” And believe me, I am.

    Why can’t you see that we need to retain Scriptural categories of right and wrong on issues where the world says, “big deal” or “it’s only natural”?

    This is a big deal today because the world is asserting loudly that homosexuality is OK. Not because conservative Christians hate homosexuals.

  9. teejtc Says:

    First of all, I don’t know you “you guys” is supposed to be. You’re making assumptions in order to pigeon hole people…be careful.

    Secondly, all your frustration about my (or is it “our”?) inability to “retain scriptural categories of right and wrong” is patently misguided. The question isn’t whether I (we) are willing to accept scripture, the question is what scripture says and how scripture indicates we ought to respond to things. In this case, even if the scriptures are clear on the concept of homosexuality, there is unquestionably a difference here on how people believe the scriptures call us to respond.

    Steve, you’re making assumptions about my position on homosexuality that you have no right to make. I have never, on any blog (my own included) declared homosexuality right or wrong — I don’t believe that’s the right question. I have tried to get us to reexamine the way we should respond - something we’ve not done well at.

    Grace and Peace,
    `tim

  10. teejtc Says:

    One final note….

    Homosexuality is not an issue that automatically declares someone “liberal” or “conservative” — it’s time to realize those polarizing categories are ineffective in almost all situations - this one is no exception.

    Grace and peace,.
    `tim

  11. scott Says:

    :shock:
    Tim, I think Steve’s assumptions about your position come more from the tone of your “secrets”, which seem to indicate your willingness to accept homosexuality. Now look at what I’ve just done! I’ve made assumptions about Steve’s assumptions about your assumptions.

    I like your post very much, and especially the radical moderates label. Where can I sign up?

  12. teejtc Says:

    Scott…

    Your point is well taken — Isn’t it interestiong? Simply daring to suggest that homosexuality isn’t “out to get us” says I’m a radical liberal who doesn’t believe in the Bible….That’s the tone of discussions in the RCA, isn’t it?!

    (BTW, I’m not saying Steve, or anyone else on this blog, used the terms in the previous paragrah. Just making it clear before anyone argues!)

    My whole point, which my congregation & elders have discussed, is that only doctrines on the par with the Trinity, Divine Sovereignty, etc. are matters of status confessionis. They are worth going to the grave for — others are not.

    I expect my classis will come up with some statement on homosexuality and try to get everyone to sign it — as if it deserves the attention and status of our standards or ordination vows….ugh. I suppose 2006 will be another long year for the RCA.

    Grace and peace,
    `tim

  13. scott Says:

    My classis is already set for battle. A minister from the NY collegiate system has been called to a church in our classis - a minister who has publicly admitted to marrying gay people. I am so sick of all this that I want to become a Carthusian (except for that whole poverty/celibacy deal :shock:). I will be expected to vote against him, but I won’t, and won’t cave in to the politicizing of calls. I guess that makes me a radical liberal too. BTW, a colleague recently “handed me over to the dark side” for my views on certain subjects. The church is becoming a mutual demonization society. If you subscribe to RENew, you can see what the classis of British Columbia is planning: exactly what you wrote in your last paragraph -an anti-gay litmus test.

  14. James Brumm Says:

    About Jesus and purity and the moneychangers in the Temple: yes, Jesus threw them out, but he never forbade them from coming back in (as long as they left their merchandise outside). Our Lord did not chase people away in his quest for purity; he simply would not allow them to behave that way within the worship space. Yes, he also wanted them to find a better way to live, but that wasn’t a prerequisite for worshiping God (if it were, we’d all be in serious trouble). A more correct analogy to the present RCA discussions would be people of homosexual orientation engaging in sexual activities in the narthex; of course, we don’t want that, but we don’t want heterosexuals doing that, either.

    Now, for the bigger question: I’m signing up for the radical moderates party. I fully believe that what we know of as homosexuality is not what Scripture addresses directly. Do I believe that same-sex relationships are part of God’s plan for life? No. Shall we make a list of everything that isn’t part of God’s plan for life? None of us have sufficient RAM to download it. This is what total depravity is all about.

    Now, are committed relationships part of God’s plan for life? Yes. And does God use ALL things for good for those who love Christ? Yes! If we exclude homosexual orientation from that list, we are limiting God . . . a much bigger sin (if we can even talk about sins as bigger or smaller, but that’s another conversation) than any of which two homosexual people trying to develop a loving, committed relationship in a fallen world might reasonably be accused. Not to mention the sin of falling victim to our fears of gays and lesbians in the face of the awesome power of God.

    I know and have known many gays and lesbians, including Ann Kansfield, through whom the Holy Spirit is most obviously at work. Who am I, who is the RCA, to even THINK of excluding them? Who are we to decide that God will reject their expressions of love (agape as well as eros, filia, or storge) made to the best of their ability?

  15. teejtc Says:

    In my mind, a lot of this comes back to the distinction I made on August 10th about doing theology “for” verses theology “against.”

    It’s at:
    http://tenclay.org/blog/2005/08/10/theology-for-rather-than-against/

    The concept is simple: it is better and more effective to do theology “for” than to spend all our time reactionarily doing theology “against.” The church is to be a place of hope, and that means it’s to be a place that’s future oriented and filled with grace. The homosexuality discussion has been neither, no matter what anyone says. It has been reactionary, litigious, past-oriented, and yes, very ungracious.

    It is our job, as the faithful, not so much to fight against the things that aren’t what we’d like them to be but to actively promote the things of God. It may seem like a minor distinction but I don’t think it’s minor at all.

    I’m not arguing (as I’ve been accused) that we should throw out biblical categories of morality or “right and wrong” - I’m arguing that throughout history when the church has reacted “against” it has often been more violent and destructive than helpful (i.e. think crusades) and when it’s done theology “for” it has often been exceedingly redemptive (i.e. consider the warmth of the Belgic Confession).

    Grace and Peace,
    `tim

  16. Tim Dodd Says:

    The Priest was looking to help new comeres and visitors understand the complexities of Anglican Eucharist practice and so asked them to send in their questions. Here was my question. I would recommed it to anyone who is called to “do something.”

    Dear Brain,

    Thank you for the invitation for questions about our Eucharist practice. HereÂ’s my question.

    In the Lord’s Prayer we pray “ . . . deliver us from evil.”
    To whom does the “us” refer?

    I struggle with issues of War in Iraq, issues surrounding sexual orientation, and the current political climate in the country I love. The issues are important. Relationships and peopleÂ’s lives are at risk. As I struggle, I turn the people with whom I disagree into my competitors, my competitors into my opponents, and then my opponents into my enemies.

    In these struggles the most marvelous things happened. First I came across the prayer For our Enemies (#6 in the BCP pg. 816). Next it seemed that I could pray this prayer by letting the “us” in the Lord’s prayer refer to both those who pray with me and also to my competitors, my opponents, and my enemies.

    Now at every Eucharist and praying of the Lord’s prayer I can lay the burden of my hate and fear at Jesus’ feet. I can give the burden of “delivering us from evil” back to God. And, until I pick the burdens back up, I can see Jesus in the eyes of my competitors, my opponents, and my enemies.

    In ChristÂ’s service,
    Tim Dodd

  17. teejtc Says:

    Tim…

    Thanks for your note…I struggle with some of those thigns as well….Who is “us”? I don’t know. I do think that many people think “us” when referring to “sinners” does NOT include them, and when referring to “forgiven people” DOES include them.

    Of course, that’s a little cynical and I’d suggest that “us” ought to be FAR more inclusive as you’ve suggested!

    Again, thanks for the note - I look forward to more of your insight.

    Grace and Peace,
    `tim

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