Aug 09 2009

The Purity Myth

Posted by teejtc in Books

I don’t do very many book reviews. As a matter of fact, I don’t think I’ve done any since starting this blog several years ago (although I have posted ripped” results of several over the years), but I finished a book the other day that I’d really like to tell you about. It’s called The Purity Myth: How America’s Obcession with Virginity is Hurting Young Women by Jessica Valenti.

First, and hear this well, this is not a book for those of you who are easily upset by “liberals” who “have no values or standards” (she isn’t one of them – she has values and standards, but if you’re that kind of a person, you will find her frustrating). She panders too much to her target audience. Her snippy comments and biting judgments are often overly harsh and she doesn’t distinguish well (or at all, in most cases) between Christians (as a whole) and the Evangelical sub-culture she attacks.

Having said that, if you can get past her constantly playing to her own corner, this is a book you need to read. I have long been frustrated by my colleagues and friends who attempt (usually unintentionally) to hang young women’s worth on their “purity” and to (as Valenti puts it) “obsess” over virginity, sex, abstinence, and abstinence only education. No one’s worth should be defined by their decision to (or not to) do a particular act (regardless of what that act is). I don’t believe (as Valenti argues) that virginity is a made-up concept, but I do fully agree with her that by over-focusing on it, many corners of Christianity have done women and society a powerful disservice.

She discusses purity pledges, purity balls, the ownership culture (i.e. where fathers, and then husbands “own” their wives), rape, pornography, our society’s unhealthy obsession with young women and a variety of related topics in a clear, straight-forward way that, although it would make most – if not all of the readers of this blog uncomfortable – recognizes the innate creepiness of much of it and the outright harm it does. She also footnotes her writing extensively in case you wonder where she’s getting some of the stuff she says (although many of the footnotes are online resources – some of which are more believable than others).

If you read my blog regularly, you will likely declare Valenti “off the deep end.” I don’t care. Read this book anyhow. Seriously. If you know me at all, you know that I never believe the ends justify the means – she clarifies, with precision, just exactly how the “means” used by many Christians have been problematic even if the “ends” they seek occasionally make sense.

Grace and Peace,
`tim

Jul 15 2009

Do you have a blog? Check this out!

Posted by teejtc in Blogs, Books, Websites, misc.

I’ll be the first to admit that MOST blogs are drivel. My own often deserves that adjective. Having said that, most of us who blog end up putting a lot of time and energy into our posts and hate the idea of losing them all in some kind of digital belch.

Enter the idea of turning your blog into a book.

The problem with that? Books are expensive and blogs are ever-changing.

Enter the website Blogbooker. With almost no effort, Blogbooker will convert your blog (if you use WordPress or LiveJournal) into a single .pdf file. And best of all? It’s free! Yeah… free!

You can’t format or do anything particularly exciting with it, but it does backup your entire blog in a single, reasonably small file. Even better? It does it quickly.

Check it out. That’s b l o g b o o k e r [dot] c o m.

Grace and Peace,
`tim

Jun 23 2009

STRIP-ing a book

Posted by teejtc in Books, misc.

STRIP-ing a book… not to be confused with yesterday’s post on “ripping” a book. Again, it’s something I’ve put together to help me — maybe you’ll find it helpful….

Upon graduating from seminary, new ministers quickly learn that one of their most unwieldy tasks will be maintaining some sense of order in an ever-increasing library. Even more importantly for those who do extensive reading, is the ability to find a quick and helpful way to “remind” oneself about the positive (and negative) qualities of a book without taking the time to re-read it.

With that problem in mind, I developed the STRIP system. It is nothing dynamic or difficult (and, for that matter, could probably be improved on), but it can be easily printed on a label and placed on the inside cover of a book allotting each book a numerical “grade” by which I can remind myself about its content (Note: the numerical “grade” does not necessarily indicate “good” or “bad”). The label is simple:

Enjoy.

Grace and Peace,
`tim

Jun 23 2009

Ripping a Book

Posted by teejtc in Books, misc.

First, I should tell you that I absolutely love reading. The problem is, I don’t always like to take the time to read things I feel like I should read. I could take a speed reading course, I suppose, but haven’t seen one offered that was convenient. So, I’ve begun “ripping” books. It’s nothing fancy but it saves me time and get’s me through books that I might otherwise not want to spend so much time on or simply don’t have the time for (even if I want to). I figure, now that I’ve been doing it for a few years, that I can get through anywhere between 100 and 300 pages an hour depending on the book – sometimes a bit more. If the book uses archaic language, is quite technical, or is a professional book from a different field, the page count per hour drops dramatically.

I don’t know if anyone else would find it helpful, but here’s how I do it:

  • Clear a spot on a table or desk (important!)
  • Open a word processor on a computer and wear in the spine of the book a bit (so that it’ll sort-of stay open on the table).
  • Put the Title, Author, Publisher, Bibliographical info and price at the top of the page (you’ll want this information if you ever come back to it).
  • Save the document using the title as your file name.
  • Save frequently during the process.
  • Plow through the book as quickly as possible.
  • Skim. Don’t read anything unless you need to (for clarity) or want to.
  • Slow down only when you run across something that seems interesting or important.
  • If it seems really important type it into your word processor verbatim. Normally you won’t have more than a few sentences every couple of pages.
  • Important passages often follow long quotations from other sources and often show up as lists.
  • Don’t bother paraphrasing; just use quotations. They take far less time and are more usable if you every want to use them as a quotation for writing later. (You can always paraphrase later if appropriate).
  • If something needs clarification put it in brackets or type it into the document without quotation marks.
  • Follow each quotation with a reference as to which page it’s from (in parenthesis.)
  • If you copy something every 5-15 pages, you’re probably doing well.
  • If you make it through 20 pages without any quotations, stop and take a break (you’re probably checked out… although some books deserve it!)
  • Sometimes I go over the final document and highlight the most important quotations in yellow or red.
  • This evening I ripped The Celtic Way of Evangelism. It wasn’t as great of a book as I had hoped, but it did have some good content. If you’re interested, here’s what my final product looked like (.pdf).

    I know the process doesn’t have much finesse – it’s more skill than art; but I’ve developed it through use and it works well for me — feel free to steal it if it’s helpful!

    You might also consider STRIPping books too (an equally as self-developed method I use for evaluating them) – I’ll post instructions on that later.

    Grace and peace,
    `tim

    Dec 08 2008

    Vampires & Twilight…

    Posted by teejtc in Blogs, Books, Humor

    First, a quick confession… I love vampire movies.  I think they’re a blast.  I know; vampire movies are probably “conduct unbecoming” for a minister, but oh well.

    Having made that little confession, it’s worth noting that I haven’t gone to see Twilight (nor have I read the books).  Maybe I’ll see it eventually (on DVD); I don’t know – I’m not terribly “into” teenybopper movies.

    That said, I was cruising the blog-o-sphere and ran into a post by clairie_b (I don’t think I know who she is… her blog was on the roll of one of my other friend’s blogs) and loved her description of the book:

    check it out here

    Isn’t that great!  Guess I’m going to have to keep checking out her blog!
    Grace and Peace,

    `tim

    Mar 03 2008

    Artisan Bread in Five Minutes a Day

    Posted by teejtc in Books, Food, Websites

    Any of you who’ve stayed around here for very long know that this blog goes in any number of directions.  Today we’re back to baking.  I LOVE baking bread!  I love eating bread… Minus the potential biblical problems with the statement, I think I could live off the stuff, especially if it’s good and crusty on the outside and chewy on the inside.

    A couple of weeks ago I read about (and promptly ordered on Amazon) a book entitled Artisan Bread in Five Minutes a Day.  The concept is simple:  You make enough for 4 (1#) loaves of bread and keep the dough in the fridge until you want to bake it.  It’s a very high moisture dough so it stays “fresh,” it requires NO kneading, NO punching down, NO traditional rising.  You do “cloak” the loaves and let them rest for 40 minutes (that’s the recommendation, I’ve found it’s not long enough).  [Incidentally the 40 minutes doesn't count in your "5 minutes a day" since you don't have to actively be doing anything for the bread during it.]

    To make a long story short, I’ve been working the recipe for about 2 weeks now – that’s been about 4 batches (each creating 4 loaves).  The loaves are smaller than “normal” but that’s fine since you simply bake a new one when you’re ready (the dough can sit in the fridge for up to 2 weeks!)

    The problem is, I’ve been getting WAY too much oven spring (i.e. I get unsightly bread-tumors breaking through my loaves.)  I think my problem was 3-fold: 1) I wasn’t using enough steam, and 2) the 40 minutes wasn’t long enough, and 3) I hadn’t been scoring it deep enough.  In any case, I’ve been playing with it and finally got what I consider the “perfect” loaf this morning! It even “sang” a perfect near-opera when I pulled it out of the oven!

    Bread

    It’s fortunate and unfortunate since I as baking the loaf to give away.   It’s the perfect loaf to give, but it’s sad to see it go….

    If you’re a bread person, I’d definately recommend the book.  The authors also have a (pretty basic) website/blog at:

    Artisan Bread in 5 Minutes a Day

    http://www.artisanbreadinfive.com/

    Grace and Peace,

    `tim

    Nov 06 2007

    Hot Cocoa Mix

    Posted by teejtc in Books, Coffee, Knitting & Tatting

    Winter is here which means that 2 things are a fairly constant reality in my life: (1) I think back on the days when I was a child and considered it slightly embarrassing to heat with wood (something I find difficult to believe now since I intensely lust after the possibility of some day having a fireplace!) and (2) Hot drinks are in season, even for those people who don’t normally drink coffee.

    Knowing that this season was just around the corner, I picked up a little booklet by Goosberry Patch (Cookbooklet #19) entitled “hot cocoa.” It’s an entire booklet with recipes for making – yep you guessed it – hot cocoa. Unfortunately several of the recipes start with “chocolate drink mix” which seems to be cheating and kind of grates on me, but one of them that doesn’t is the “Spiced Hot Cocoa Mix” on page 18.

    It’s not as creamy as hot cocoa “should be” and I’m all about Splenda, so here’s my revised version. Enjoy!

    Mix all ingredients in a 1-gallon plastic bag:

    • 1 1/3 c. Splenda
    • 2 c. Powdered Milk
    • 1 c. Baking Cocoa
    • 3 Tbs. Instant Espresso Powder
    • 1/2 tsp. Cinnamon
    • 1/8 tsp. Cardamom
    • 1 (10.2 oz) container of French Vanilla Coffee Mate (I use the sugar free)

    Put 1/4 c. in about a cup of hot water. mmmm… Gotta love winter!

    Grace and Peace,

    `tim

    Jul 11 2007

    Good Consistory Meeting

    Posted by teejtc in Books, Church, Consistory, Religious

    We had our July consistory meeting last night (postponed from last week because of the fireworks we were supposed to have then) and I have to say, the elders’ part was one of the best elders’ meetings we’ve ever had. Not that we discussed anything particularly new or controversial but we did finally come to a basic answer to the fundamental question: how do we know how well we’re doing?

    It’s a difficult question to answer. How does a consistory evaluate the effectiveness of a congregation’s ministry? There are a number of ways: income, numeric growth, baptisms, involvement, etc., etc. We’ve decided to evaluate according to the three pillars of the Isaiah Agenda. I’ve recommended The Isaiah Vision before – and let me recommend it to you again if you haven’t read it. It’s VERY good. If you look at the original post, you’ll see there are three aspects to the idea:

    • The Isaiah agenda (From Is. 65.20-23),
    • Invitation to worship, and
    • Invitation to discipleship.

    Our version of it is a little more broad:

    • Ministry to others
    • Worship
    • Discipleship & Devotion

    The idea is simple. Without being legalistic, we can agree that the scriptures promote these three things for each and every single believer. In other words, there is a problem if someone does not value (and, in some way, participate in) each of these three things. Of course, it’ll look different from individual to individual and family to family, and there are a myriad of ways these three priorities can be expressed and embraced, but the idea is simple: our “job” as a board of elders (and a consistory, as a whole) is to do what we can to ensure every member of our congregation (and “member” here is a very broad term) embraces all three to as great of a degree as possible.

    I have been encouraged (in a healthy way) by the elders to begin “afflicting the comfortable” as strongly as possible toward these three things which induces a certain amount of nervousness but also immense excitement. We’ve discussed this with the entire consistory and expect a certain amount of resistance but are all on the same page (what a great feeling!)

    This approach is both easily evaluated and, I think, broad enough to prevent a legalistic (“check-list style”) approach.

    Did I mention that I’m excited?

    I wonder what the next year is going to look like?!

    Grace and Peace,

    `tim

    Jul 09 2007

    Dumbledore’s best quip…

    Posted by teejtc in Books, Humor, Quotes, Religious

    I posted on this on August 1, 2005 (apparently the first time I read Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince), and ran across it again the other day (re-reading the series in light of the impending release of the final book and the next movie) but it’s worth pointing out again… great quip….

    “I don’t mean to be rude–” [Harry's jerk-of-an-uncle] began, in a tone that threatened rudeness in every syllable.

    “– yet, sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often,” Dumbledore finished the sentence gravely. “Best to say nothing at all, my dear man….”

    From page 46

    Wonderful, isn’t it?!

    “Sadly, accidental rudeness occurs alarmingly often”

    JKR sometimes hits the nail directly on the head….

    Grace and Peace,

    `tim

    Jul 04 2007

    Book Recommendation

    Posted by teejtc in Books, Church, Religious

    I was doing some research last week on the Dunbar Number for an article on church size that I’m writing and ran across the book The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference by Malcolm Gladwell (New York: Little, Brown and Company Back Bay Books, 2000 – ISBN: 0-316-34662-4).  The book is a wonderful combination of informative, fun, intriguing, and exciting.
    It’s about the concept of epidemics.  Epidemics in this sense can be positive or negative, physical or sociological, etc.  Gladwell explains some very technical sociological concept in amazingly simple terms.  The book is essentially a compelling explanation of the three “laws” of epidemics (the law of the few, the law of stickiness, and the law of context).  Perhaps even more importantly than the three laws, he introduces us to three types of people (connectors, mavens, and salesmen) who are often key in causing epidemics.

    Epidemic theory may very give some powerful insight into how the church does church.  Why do some ministries take off and others flop?  Why do some people seem to always be in the center of things?  Why do some ideas (great ones and, occasionally, awful ones) seem to immediately take hold and others not?  Certainly there are sometimes spiritual answers to these questions but other times that’s obviously not the case.  In those “other” times, the answer may well be what Gladwell calls the “tipping point.”  That point where something “tips” from obscure to popular… from minor to major… from barely noticeable to highly influential.

    His theory suggests that these epidemics can be unexpected, but that they can also be planned.  He examines Hush Puppy shoes, Sesame Street, cheating, crime… the list is extensive – all in a way that’s both exciting and fun to read.

    Check it out – You’ll be glad you did.

    Grace and Peace,

    `tim